"Help me do it alone!" --Maria Montessori
I can carry my own bag!
I can find my own coat! (My mom helps when she labels my belongings. https://www.oliverslabels.com/)
I can zip
and snap my own coat!
I can get ready to work!
I can sweep!
I can rake!
I can feed the gerbils
and take down the chairs!
I can concentrate to finish my work!
I can share and take turns!
I can make work choices!
I can listen and follow directions!
I can participate in group projects!
I can be a scientist!
I can count
and do addition!
I can measure
and use the grater to cook Mac and Cheese!
I can use the Moveable Alphabet to build words
and use sounds I've learned to read!
I can use tools to hammer,
write,
and paint!
I can be a friend!
I can be an observer and a problem solver!
I can learn about the world
and even help others!
Did you know that research in psychology has shown that when children are allowed more independence, they tend to have more intrinsic motivation to learn and higher self-esteem.(Deci, et al.)?
"Overhelping causes harm. It can leave young adults without the strengths of skill, will and character that are needed to know themselves and to craft a life." "Our job as a parent is to put ourselves out of a job." --Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of How to Raise an Adult: Break Free of the Overparenting Trap and Prepare Your Kid for Success
"The setbacks, mistakes, miscalculations, and failures we have shoved out of our children's way are the very experiences that teach them how to be resourceful, persistent, innovative, and resilient citizens of the world." --Jessica Lahey author of The Gift of Failure
NB: WAPTO is hosting Jessica Lahey on Tuesday, October 27th at 6:00. Plan to attend!
